I went there to work for the Malaysian Wilderness centre taking groups of Malaysian teenagers on 5 day OE coursess, but immediately got transferred to work / live onboard the ‘Puteri Mahsuri’ (a 70m long square rig tall sailing ship) for a month to teach the Royal Malaysian Navy and Ministry of Education Officials how to sail the ship on 5 and 10 day long courses.
I was excited about the idea until I got onboard I realized a few things…
1) There were no other women onboard
2) There were 60 other dudes onboard
3) I was the only English speaking native
4) Everyone else were Muslim men; who are brought up to just socialize with the men and then eventually just marry the women – not actually be friends with them in the middle!!
5) Communication between me and the others would be virtually non existent.
6) This was a massive sailing ship which had 11 sails and 98 ropes, no winches and no modern equipment to help sail it.
7) I needed to learn everything about how to sail this monstrosity in 3 days before I would instruct my first group.
8) The person who taught me how to sail it could not speak much English and I definitely could not speak much Malay.
9) My students most likely would not speak much English either.
10) It was a Muslim ship so no alcohol was allowed onboard.
11) And the only time I could leave the ship was when the guys went to the Mosk for Friday prayers… if there was enough room for me on the support boat.

First month was hell – To sum it up I was super lonely, home sick, stranded and bored for an entire month - but I asked to stay on for another month so that I could attempt to make the most of it… the next month I made a huge effort to learn the language, become mates with the crew and students onboard, and learn as much as I could about sailing and Malay life.

It was one of the best months of my life. I absolutely loved it. I did not hold back for a second and made sure I was learning and speaking the language at every moment possible and talking to the guys constantly. Some of the crew felt like second brothers to me, I fell in love with the ship and couldn’t imagine going back to living on land.
Hey I even got a few marriage proposals!!!!

I lived onboard for a total of 103 day. It was the craziest, weirdest and most liberating experience of my life!!!

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